![]() ![]() It was common in ancient times to tear your clothes as a way of repenting and showing sorrow over mistakes you may have made. Have you ever thought about what a proper response to God looks like when you make a mistake? Submitted by No_Broccoli_1470 to Advice Ģ023.02.22 18:21 Logical-Let-4571 I am getting my make a wish meeting on 3/2. I'm still not even sure if she's gaslighting or manipulating. I've convinced myself that I should feel bad for not always supporting her and being there for her no matter what, but I'm starting to think that this shouldn't be the way I think anymore. I'm just not sure how to navigate this and if I'm in the wrong. I am finding new people who have the same hobbies as me and don't like to go party, which she still does. I don't want to cut her out of my life, but it's very difficult to feel guilty for living my life now. ![]() I feel bad because I never want to hurt someone I care about so much, but am I in the wrong? I'm not sure what else I could do at this point. You always made time for your partner and visiting your family on weekends last year and not me." I guess I'm coming to the realization that this behavior may be manipulative, and has been for a while. ![]() She would reply and say, "it's okay it's all me and my jealousy. I said this, and she said that "even though she doesn't reply to my texts she still wants to hear from me." I tried to handle this like an adult, by just saying that I am truly sorry that I have hurt her feelings, but this year is way different than it was for me before. You never made time for me before and now you make time for new people." Even though I've tried so many times to see her and contact her, but get blown off. I really am glad you're making new friends, but you've really hurt me. This completely threw me, she kept going back and forth saying "I'm happy for you. Emma recently said she needed to talk to me, in which she stated "how much I've hurt her". I have grown so much this past year and feel that I am in a different place in my life (more time and way less stressed and mentally exhausted), and have made new friends that I do things with frequently. I'm in grad school 6 hours away from her, and have made efforts to talk to her and tried to make plans. She made me feel guilty for being so busy (and extremely stressed and depressed) in my senior year that I was unable to see her (or any other friends), and that I made time for my long distance partner.įlash forward to now. I had considered her my best friend for the years following, until I graduated and decided to go to grad school. She ended up having a lot of trouble with family, school, financials, pretty much everything and I was her main support (which she reminded me of all the time). We remained friends, eventually ended up living together, until I decided that our lifestyles weren't compatible to live together anymore (me focused on school with full time job, her still in school but very disorganized and drinking a lot). At this point, she would attempt to guilt trip me into going out constantly until she finally got the hint. She started really struggling in school, and I decided to get serious and start cutting out all the partying and focus on schooling. We went out all the time, and became really close. I (24 F) have been best friends since my first week of undergrad with let's call her Emma (22 F), and at that point in time I was really into partying and doing what most college freshmen do and so was she. Apologize in advance if this seems really drawn out. ![]()
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